I’m sure you won’t be surprised to learn that I’ve heard from a great many persons your age who have the same problem as you. You must realize that there can be no specific answer to the question “How do we live?” that will be applicable to every individual. The only all-purpose answer I can give you is a general one.
Like everything else in the animal kingdom, you must make a living. (In Beyond Civilization I spend a lot of time describing the tribal way of making a living.) Only the independently wealthy have their living made for them–by their parents or grandparents.
So the question becomes, how are you going to make YOUR living? Obviously I can’t offer any suggestions, since I know almost nothing about you. Only you know what your talents and inclinations are. You have to follow those. You have to aim at finding a way to do what you do best and what you enjoy doing most, because that’s where you’re going to find fulfillment and happiness.
You say you don’t want to do it working nine to five in a cubicle, but how do you know? It really depends on what you’re DOING in that cubicle. I worked in educational publishing for twenty years—nine to five in a cubicle, surrounded by dozens or hundreds of others working nine to five in cubicles—doing work we were good at and were proud of.
People who work at Cultural Survival and the Society for Conservation Biology work nine to five in cubicles, but they’re doing work they think is important and rewarding. Even if it was my living room, I’ve spent the last thirty years working nine to five in a cubicle, writing my books. Publishers, lawyers, engineers, city-planners, government officials, psychiatrists, and architects all work nine to five in cubicles.
I’m not advising you to work nine to five in a cubicle—I’m just saying that you need a wider view of your future. You can’t just think of when and where you DON’T want to work. You have to think of what kind of work you DO want to do. Even concert pianists spend most of their lives working nine to five in a cubicle, with their pianos. You have to focus on what you do best and go for that—whether it leads to a cubicle or not.
I’m afraid there is no “movement” I can invite you to join, but even if there were, I don’t think this would be the solution for you. If you submit yourself to some movement or nonprofit organization simply because you don’t know what else to do, you’re not likely to last long. I’d guess that a great many Greenpeace workers come from the pool of young people who just don’t know what else to—and I’d guess that they get burned out on door-to-door soliciting pretty quickly.
I don’t mean to say that finding a direction for your life is easy. It’s the rare person for whom it’s easy, especially at your age. Most of us have to try this and try that, just following our noses from one thing to the next until the direction becomes clear. You have to be patient with yourself—and keep in mind that almost everyone in our society has to go through this process. Some never even try; they take whatever comes along and make do with that—often for the rest of their lives. That’s what you DON’T want to do!
updated: 09 Feb 2006